Moving Beyond Childhood Wounds as an Adult

Moving Beyond Childhood Wounds as an Adult

The Short Answer Childhood wounds don't stay in childhood. They become the beliefs we live from: that we have to be perfect, that our needs don't count, that being ourselves isn't safe. You can't think your way out of them, but you can see them for what they are, old...

read more
How Does The Emotional Detoxx Work?

How Does The Emotional Detoxx Work?

Does The Emotional Detoxx work? Geoffrey Rose, Ph.D., who coined “emotional detox” in 2000, explains what the method is, what it isn’t, and how you can tell it’s working.

read more
“The Wall”

“The Wall”

I just finished work for the day. It's interesting how some days seem to have a common theme. Today was such a day. Everyone was, in their own way, describing an issue or personal situation where there appeared to be a "wall" or an energetic riff between themselves...

read more
Change is Possible

Change is Possible

Contrary to what life may have led you to believe, real, meaningful change is possible. I’m not going to kid you, though… change requires effort. This is because it first asks us to change our minds, and most of us find this step extremely difficult. Be that as it...

read more

Enough-ness

Let’s talk about “enough-ness”. You know the age-old question, "Is the glass half empty or half full?" I suppose it was meant to detect whether one was basically an optimist or a pessimist. According to an early mentor of mine, the question is meaningless and really...

read more

Rumi

Rumi said it perfectly... "I have lived on the lip of insanity. Wanting to know reasons. Knocking at the door. It opens... I’ve been knocking from the inside."

read more

Freedom

Freedom, to me, has always meant freedom from my own oppressive thoughts. I was fortunate enough to grow up in the United States where, for the most part, government has let us do our own thing, if it didn't hurt someone or break any laws. So, for me, freedom was not...

read more

Why Intimacy?

We humans favor the familiar. We gravitate to what we know. Familiarity is the nostalgic tale on intimacy’s lips, and we love it, never tiring of the story. Intimacy whispers to our lost sense of connection, telling us the most important thing we need to know – that...

read more

Thank God I Had That Nervous Breakdown

Chicago: Winter… Many Moons Ago. I just graduated from college and I’m terrified. I’m no more ready to take care of myself or take on the world than to climb Everest. I live with my college sweetheart in a dilapidated cockroach-infested apartment building on Chicago’s...

read more

When life hands you lemons… ask for oranges.

When life hands you lemons... ask for oranges.  I had this thought this morning. Of course I don't simply mean to wish for something better. But on a very deep level most of us are conditioned, or hard-wired, to expect what we are getting; so, of course we get what we...

read more

Yoga, the Book and Dr. David Hawkins

The asanas and kriyas we practice in yoga are designed to return our bodies to their original, expansive, unencumbered form – free of the years of misguided, image-based, fear-based posturing – free of the stiff and weighty armor we have unconsciously taken on over...

read more

Pollyanna – Metaphysical Whiz Kid

The story of Pollyanna tells of a young girl who, after her father’s death, goes to live with her wealthy aunt. Upon Pollyanna’s arrival, the dispirited people in the town miraculously become joyful and healthy simply by interacting with her. Over the years, the term...

read more

Practical Spirituality

I'm pragmatic. I take an interest in something if it can improve the quality of my life. When I was just a teenager I sensed that my thought was running my life. Unfortunately, it was running it into the ground. I needed help in "screwing my head on right". Enter...

read more